With Valentine’s Day around the corner, it’s time to add some romance to your wardrobe. First, check your closet to see what you have, then make a list of what you might want to add: a touch of lace? something red hot? something strappy and sexy? black and slinky? Just remember, there are lots of ways to highlight your best features on this special date night.

The LBD
Black is always dressy and sexy, no matter your size. This one by Wai Ming has a leather bodice with a pleated georgette skirt. If you’re not into dresses, any silhouette in black will do; it can be a jacket, pant or skirt that you add something special to—say a lace top or a strappy stiletto. (Pictured: waimingstudio.com, $725)style-sense_Wai_Ming_FW15_LB_IMG_6593_Product-REV-3-9-15-copy

Never Underestimate the Underpinnings
Sexy starts with what’s underneath. Leave a little something to the imagination with a frilly bra, a slinky slip or these flirty bloomers from local brand Sassy Chassis. It’s a female version of boxer shorts—why not? (Photo: Bill Barrett; Pictured: sassychassisusa.com, $44)Sassy-Chassis (1)

Foot Fetish
Nothing is more romantic than the leg-lengthening stiletto heel—especially with freshly painted toenails. High heels accentuate the legs with a long and lean look, and the tassel on this Jimmy Choo sandal ensures your feet will not go unnoticed. (Pictured: neimanmarcus.com, $975)style-sense_Jimmy-Choo---neimanmarcus (1)

Kiss Me Lips
A pouty, red lip is glamorous, sensual, feminine and adds a pop of color to the black dress. With so many hues of red, you should easily find one that complements your skin tone (the one shown is by Tom Ford). Use a red or nude lipliner to keep the lipstick from running, and top off your matte shade with a clear or golden gloss for an irresistible shimmer. (Pictured: saks.com, $52)style-sense_Tom-Ford-T31H_ROBERTO_OS_A-copy (1)

The Scent of a Woman
If you feel beautiful, you’ll look beautiful. That is why it’s so important to find, and wear, perfumes you adore. One caveat: do not overspray. The storied Estée Lauder suggests spraying the air and walking into the scent. For a longer-lasting effect, be sure to moisturize your skin first. (Pictured: saks.com, $76)style-sense_beautiful-love-estee-lauder (1)

ellen’s pick of the month ›› Fringe earrings by local designer Kate Pollmann, $75 (Kate is also a T&S columnist)!
Why? They are fun, flirty, intriguing and on-trend. Statement earrings say something bold about who you and are a sign of confidence. My favorite is the cobalt blue color because it is so wearable for many people, no matter hair and skin tone. (Photo: Bill Barrett; katepollmann.com)style-sense_Earrings (1)

Ellen Soule is a fashion and public relations consultant and the past regional director for Fashion Group International, St. Louis region.